Sunday, November 08, 2026, 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Location: Good Samaritan Episcopal Church, 4321 Eastgate Mall, San Diego, CA US 92121
Most of us have been taught that envy is a negative trait—or even a "deadly sin"—to be hidden or overcome. But what if envy is actually a revealing, constructive emotion that can be harnessed for personal growth and self-discovery?
In this interactive forum, Dr. Kim will share insights from her executive coaching work with high achievers, delve into social science research and cultural perspectives, and discuss practical ways to transform envy from a source of discomfort into a tool for hope and positive motivation.
Key Discussion Themes
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Rethinking "Deadly" Emotions: Shifting our perspective to see how envy can clarify what we truly value and desire in our lives.
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Cultural Perspectives on Envy: How different languages express envy—including the Korean term puroyo (a blending of envy and positive admiration that serves as a conversation starter) versus shiki (malicious envy).
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Benign vs. Malicious Envy: Understanding why focusing on the good you desire—rather than tearing down the person who has it—turns envy into constructive motivation.
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Practical "Scribbles": Dr. Kim’s approachable reflection technique using simple 3x5-inch index cards to help put insights into action.
Event Schedule & Details
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Sunday Worship: 8:00 AM & 10:00 AM
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Forum Start: 11:15 AM in Roetter Hall (located directly past the main Worship Center)
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Format: Conversation with Father Paul, presentation, and audience Q&A
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Book Signing & Sales: Dr. Kim will be available after the forum to sign books. Copies will be available for purchase on-site.
How to Prepare & Get Your Copy
Dr. Stacey Kim’s book, Envy, officially releases on October 20. We encourage you to pre-order or purchase a copy through your favorite local bookstore ahead of time. Reading or skimming the book beforehand will give you a great head start for the Q&A session, though all are welcome regardless of whether you have read the book.
Everyone in the community is welcome! Feel free to join us for worship prior to the forum or come directly to Roetter Hall at 11:15 AM on November 8. For additional details or updates, visit goodsamchurch.org.